; The Naughty Book Kitties: You Are The Only Exception

Jul 29, 2010

You Are The Only Exception

     Every once in a while I see a book that I have an urge to read. A book that’s nothing like the genres I enjoy and typically go for—YA, paranormal, summer teen romance. So, this is a new feature inspired by the song "You Are The Only Exception" from Paramore!! Yes, I love Ellen. You can tell. ;)

       So, most of you already know, but if you don’t, I am gay. Yupp, gay fifteen-year-old over hereeeee. And one of my favorite, most inspirational, most hope-giving people in the world is Ellen DeGeneres. And I watch her show every day. Yesterday, she had a country singer, Chely Wright, on her show. Yes, Chely is a lesbian, and yes, she spoke about her coming-out process and her new memoir, LIKE ME. Chely said something that really touched me during the interview. “As a teen, I searched all of my hometown of Kansas, and I couldn’t find anyone that was like me.” That feeling, feeling alien in your own home, it’s a terrible, terrible feeling. And while I want to feel happy that I don’t feel like an alien anymore, I can’t help feeling sad that there are teenagers—and some adults—that feel as though there’s no one like them. Which is why I have a passion for LGBT lit, as well  as YA. I think we can all, as readers of novels and books, can take something away from reading an LGBT book.

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Summary from Amazon:
Chely Wright, singer, songwriter, country music star, writes in this moving, telling memoir about her life and her career; about growing up in America’s heartland, the youngest of three children; about barely remembering a time when she didn’t know she was different.
She writes about her parents, putting down roots in their twenties in the farming town of Wellsville, Kansas, Old Glory flying atop the poles on the town’s manicured lawns, and being raised to believe that hard work, honesty, and determination would take her far.
She writes of making up her mind at a young age to become a country music star, knowing then that her feelings and crushes on girls were “sinful” and hoping and praying that she would somehow be “fixed.” (“Dear God, please don’t let me be gay. I promise not to lie. I promise not to steal. I promise to always believe in you . . . Please take it away.”)
We see her, high school homecoming queen, heading out on her own at seventeen and landing a job as a featured vocalist on the Ozark Jubilee (the show that started Brenda Lee, Red Foley, and Porter Wagoner), being cast in Country Music U.S.A., doing four live shows a day, and—after only a few months in Nashville—her dream coming true, performing on the stage of the Grand Ole Opry . . .
She describes writing and singing her own songs for producers who’d discovered and recorded the likes of Reba McEntire, Shania Twain, and Toby Keith, who heard in her music something special and signed her to a record contract, releasing her first album and sending her out on the road on her first bus tour . . . She writes of sacrificing all for a shot at success that would come a couple of years later with her first hit single, “Shut Up And Drive” . . . her songs (from her fourth album, Single White Female) climbing the Billboard chart for twenty-nine weeks, hitting the #1 spot . . . 
She writes about the friends she made along the way—Vince Gill, Brad Paisley, and others—writing songs, recording and touring together, some of the friendships developing into romantic attachments that did not end happily . . . Keeping the truth of who she was clutched deep inside, trying to ignore it in a world she longed to be a part of—and now was—a world in which country music stars had never been, could not be, openly gay . . .
She writes of the very real prospect of losing everything she’d worked so hard to create . . . doing her best to have a real life—her best not good enough . . .
And in the face of everything she did to keep herself afloat, she writes about how the vortex of success and hiding who she was took its toll: her life, a tangled mess she didn’t see coming, didn’t want to; and, finally, finding the guts to untangle herself from the image of the country music star she’d become, an image steeped in long-standing ideals and notions about who—and what—a country artist is, and what their fans expect them to be . . .
Like Me is fearless, inspiring, true.


"I am a songwriter,” she writes. “I am a singer of my songs—and I have a story to tell. As I’ve traveled this path that has delivered me to where I am today, my monument of thanks, paying honor to G
od, remains. I will do all I can with what I have been given . . .”

11 comments:

Writer said...

Very good quote. I will have to find this book. As a teenager in western Kentucky, I did find a few other gay people in my town but they were very different from me, and it was very easy to feel alone and isolated. That's why I love Ellen - even if you live somewhere where there are no other LGBTQ people, everyday you can turn on the TV and she reaches out to you.

Thank you for the post. :)

Robert Guthrie said...

1. I loooooove Ellen.
2. Thanks for introducing me to Chely Wright. I'm a newish country music fan - Reba McEntire's "Fancy" is a favorite song.
3. I started an on-line nonprofit, Our Spirit, ourspiritnow.org, to help LGBT youth deal w/the religious right. Feel free to check it out & and to send it along to anyone you think it might help.
4. You're inspiring.

Shooting Stars Mag said...

Ellen is great. I saw Chely on Oprah first. I mean, I grew up on country so I recognized some of her songs after I heard them. I think it's great she can finally be her true self and I hope she is still successful. She doesn't have a right to be shunned. I heard her new single at the movie theater...before the movie...and it was really good.

-Lauren

BookChic said...

Ellen is pretty awesome, isn't she? My roommate and I DVR her show every day and mainly watched American Idol because of her, lol.

Anyway, great post. I definitely understand those feelings and it's one of the reasons why I really want to write and publish GLBT YA fiction. Yes, our world is becoming more accepting, but the fight isn't completely over and there are still tons of teenagers feeling alone in their feelings. We need more visibility that everything will be okay for all GLBT individuals.

Lisa_Gibson said...

Awesome post Brent! As usual, you ROCK! It's important for anyone to feel as though they are accepted as they are. No one should have to be someone they are not just to feel loved and accepted.

pussreboots said...

Thank you for the recommendation. I've added the book to my wishlist.

YA Book Lover said...

Following from the hop! Have a good weekend!

misha1989 said...

Thank you for the book recommendation!
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elizabeth said...

Hi! Stopping by from the CEP.
Great post! I love Ellen, too. She is a great inspiration to anyone.

Buried in Books said...

I was barely conscious when I heard about some overly conservative Republican senator who has never lost a supreme court case is arguing, (sit down) for gay rights and he's taking it to the TOP! THE SUPREME COURT! He's never lost a case infront of them. I think his name is Overstreet. The story is probably online, but let's hope. I saw that prop. 8 passed in California. I hope for your's and everyone else sake out there who's life partner is different from what conservatives consider "normal" get all the rights they deserve. Let's hope it does go to the Supreme Court and he doesn't lose.

Anyway, that wasn't why I stopped by. I was doing the blog hop. So hi! Come visit! No judgements here.

Mollie said...

I'm not big on reading non-fiction, but this sounds like a truly inspiring story.

(Here via CEP)